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#1 Feb 23 2006 at 12:00 PM Rating: Decent
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Please god just delete this topic before you cause a huge flame war. This is simply one of the things you don't bring up (especially on a gaming forum).

Too many people have too strong of emotions into this subject. This is like a taboo of open dicussion. >.<

Thanks,

(I'm not trying to be a ***....but these never turn out good)


Ya, you're probably right.

Edited, Thu Feb 23 12:18:13 2006 by FenrirFireal

Edited, Thu Feb 23 21:20:27 2006 by Railus
#2 Feb 23 2006 at 12:05 PM Rating: Decent
That's interesting.
#3 Feb 23 2006 at 12:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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Please god just delete this topic before you cause a huge flame war. This is simply one of the things you don't bring up (especially on a gaming forum).

Too many people have too strong of emotions into this subject. This is like a taboo of open dicussion. >.<

Thanks,

(I'm not trying to be a ***....but these never turn out good)
#4 Feb 23 2006 at 12:13 PM Rating: Good
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I know people will have very strong feelings about this. But I for one, am very happy that was passed. I personally think there is nothing more barbaric, cruel, than taking an innocent life. I'm sure if ANY of you actually saw a video of a late term abortion being performed, you would feel the same way. You would have to be a monster not to.

For those that don't know how its performed:
The baby is killed in the late 2nd, or 3rd trimester of pregnancy.
The baby is partially removed from the woman's womb and the head/skull is either punctured with a sharp object, or crushed.

There is a special place in hell for the doctors that perform those procedures, I'm sure of it.
#5 Feb 23 2006 at 12:16 PM Rating: Decent
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Please god just delete this topic before you cause a huge flame war. This is simply one of the things you don't bring up (especially on a gaming forum).

Too many people have too strong of emotions into this subject. This is like a taboo of open dicussion. >.<

Thanks,

(I'm not trying to be a ***....but these never turn out good)



I disagree, these sort of discussions are actually meaningful. Something to actually make one think. Instead of the normal, ZOMG HE STOLE MY NM posts that we usually write about.
#6 Feb 23 2006 at 12:53 PM Rating: Decent
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while Im not going into it myself, I feel the opposit of Arth. I feel this is a very sad day for the US. People have the right to chose and its their choice to take the reprecussions of their actions. I do not feel a cluster of cells is a human being and science has proven that thats the case. The fact is there are more misscarages than abortions out there, yet people very rarely consider a misscarage a life, but god forbid a rape victim chose to eleminate a reminder of their ordeal. Its religon forcing its view on people who dont beleive in it under the guise of doing right.

Answer me these questions.

1) if you are to ban abortion, what would you do for those women who know they cant take care of the children they are to give birth to. Adoption is not a answer, as most children never do infact get adopted. Will you provide federal funds to those who cant provide for themselves?

2) Will you pay the medical, finacial bills of those who get gravily ill or die because of a problem that complicated pregnancy and could have been prevented with a abortion.

3) Will you provide for ways to prevent pregnancy. Right now the Republican governement refuses to admint abstinence programs do not work, here in the US nor abroad. Schools who teach alternate meanns of contraspetive lose all government health funding for it. Will you allow the laws to be changed so that you can try to better prevent pregnancy?

4) Will you provide support to women and men who because of their shattered lives live in a enviroment that makes having a child seem like a lot of sense if only to fufill a need they wouldnt have had. Mind you this plays into number 1 since statistically most people who have children they cant support have them because of being given away by their parents unwanted.

The sad fact is, is that you can't provide for any of this, and no amount of god worship will either. You can chastise and hate it all you want, but the fact is you yourself would never pay the money or spend the time to bring about the changes needed to even prevent SOME of the reasons abortions happen. And you could never prevent all of them.

You might not agree to it, but you have no right to decide it any further than where you stick it and where its stuck. Your not going to be a bad whatever just because it exists, because if that was true I could name 101 other things that are more worthy of you going to hell then taking a pill a day after.
#7 Feb 23 2006 at 1:01 PM Rating: Excellent
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I disagree, these sort of discussions are actually meaningful. Something to actually make one think. Instead of the normal, ZOMG HE STOLE MY NM posts that we usually write about.



I have never seen this subject end well no matter where it is brought up. The strong emotions that go along with it almost always make it go bad at some point. I have also never seen anyone change someone's point of view about it.

You either feel one way about this or another. That's why talking about it just ends up pissing people off. It's just too personal. Now I'm not saying you can't be mature about it, but you give this thread till the end of the day and we'll see where it is.


Edit: spelling

Edited, Thu Feb 23 13:03:13 2006 by muRiboflavin
#8 Feb 23 2006 at 1:08 PM Rating: Decent
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Im glad we can have a civilized conversation about this without starting a flame war. Now to your questions falc

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1) if you are to ban abortion, what would you do for those women who know they cant take care of the children they are to give birth to. Adoption is not a answer, as most children never do infact get adopted. Will you provide federal funds to those who cant provide for themselves?


Adoption is DEFINATLEY an option. A mother that cannot take care of her child should know that there ARE millions of people out there that are willing to adopt newborns. ESPECAILLY newborns.

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2) Will you pay the medical, finacial bills of those who get gravily ill or die because of a problem that complicated pregnancy and could have been prevented with a abortion.


The bill that was passed does in fact have a clause that does allow abortion in the case where a mothers life is in jeopardy. In that case, the pregnancy would be terminated to prevent certain death to the mother.


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3) Will you provide for ways to prevent pregnancy. Right now the Republican governement refuses to admint abstinence programs do not work, here in the US nor abroad. Schools who teach alternate meanns of contraspetive lose all government health funding for it. Will you allow the laws to be changed so that you can try to better prevent pregnancy?


I'll be very candid with this one. If you dont want kids, stop having sex. Its everyone's personal choice to have sex. And if you're "adult" enough to have sex, you should be "adult" enough to take responsibility for your actions. We're not animals, if you wanted to control your urges, you could.

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4) Will you provide support to women and men who because of their shattered lives live in a enviroment that makes having a child seem like a lot of sense if only to fufill a need they wouldnt have had. Mind you this plays into number 1 since statistically most people who have children they cant support have them because of being given away by their parents unwanted.


Again, in these cases I would refrain from actual intercourse. There are many other options to make husband/wife happy. However, I do agree that our government needs to provide more assistance to family's that choose to have kids. In Germany the government pays parents to stay home and raise their kids. They'd rather have kids grow up with loving parents, than parents that are never home, working 3 jobs just to put food on the table.
#9 Feb 23 2006 at 1:20 PM Rating: Decent
I'm happy to see that my body is not mine.

As fucked up as it is to say (and it may upset Falc to see) but I hope I get pregnant, have health-issues due to it, and die as a result of not being able to save my own life thanks to the wonderful American Government. Then maybe my family and loved ones can take my story and fight this BS as hard as they possibly can.

America is not equal to all citizens living on its borders... and this just goes to prove that being female and a born-and-bread legal citizen give you no rights to what you do to your own body and what choices you can make to your own life.

I really hope that when Falc and I get married, we either decide to leave this country, or I am medically unable to have children because I sure as hell do not want to raise my children in this male-dominated disaster.

The beauty of pro-choice was you could have your feelings and decisions, and I could have mine. The whole idea behind it is the person who is in question has the freedom to make a decision relevant to their life, surroundings, environment, and moral beliefs. Now, I guess we're all forced to subscribe to the beliefs of one religious sect who happens to be in power in our government and making decision based on their personal and religious beliefs. Just because Christians believe that life starts at conception does not mean that the millions of people who live in this country believe the same thing and should be forced to believe it as well.

It's a sad day to be a woman in the United States of America. My uterus is no longer my own, but property of the religious beliefs of the United States Government.
#11 Feb 23 2006 at 1:29 PM Rating: Decent
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Adoption is DEFINATLEY an option. A mother that cannot take care of her child should know that there ARE millions of people out there that are willing to adopt newborns. ESPECAILLY newborns.


not true at all, while there are millions of kids up for it, only roughly 111,000 actually where adopted, with most going into group homes/ foster care/ institutes. and that number of adoptions is not counting the high number of adoptions of kids not from the US, a trend thats rising.

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The bill that was passed does in fact have a clause that does allow abortion in the case where a mothers life is in jeopardy. In that case, the pregnancy would be terminated to prevent certain death to the mother.


I'll give you this, though most abortion bans do not take the womans health into effect.

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I'll be very candid with this one. If you dont want kids, stop having sex. Its everyone's personal choice to have sex. And if you're "adult" enough to have sex, you should be "adult" enough to take responsibility for your actions. We're not animals, if you wanted to control your urges, you could.


Very true, but I will also point back to my original comment in the fact that this is the current policy in the US, and while birth rate has gone down, more children are actually born every year... population rate is only down because deathrate is actually up. The fact is abstinence doesnt work and is completely ineffective, while contries who have a program that takes into account alternate means like France can actually show real results.

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Again, in these cases I would refrain from actual intercourse. There are many other options to make husband/wife happy. However, I do agree that our government needs to provide more assistance to family's that choose to have kids. In Germany the government pays parents to stay home and raise their kids. They'd rather have kids grow up with loving parents, than parents that are never home, working 3 jobs just to put food on the table.


provide the money. We are in more debt thanks to current government spending trends than we where ever in durring the dark days of the 70's-80's resession. Worse we are on tap to have it so that you and I will never see any of the money we now pay into SS every paycheck. We dont have the money nor will we ever will for 15-20 year at best estimates of payback, more towards 40-60 years. and this is only if people stop going into our country and people stop gving birth.

edit: ment population rate not birth rate

Edited, Thu Feb 23 13:33:08 2006 by Yurifalconfire
#12 Feb 23 2006 at 1:31 PM Rating: Decent
The's see...

-Fireal: Male
-Arthanian: Male
-Asyra: Male

Thanks for telling women what to do with their bodies.

Btw, looked up this info a few minutes ago:

usconstitution.net wrote:
The Wall of Separation

Often when someone speaks of the constitutionally guaranteed right to religion, they also speak of "the wall of separation between church and state," or simply as "the separation of church and state." What does this mean, and what is the origin of this phrase?

It did not take long after the passage and ratification of the 1st Amendment for people to start interpreting it to simply mean that that federal government had no business getting mixed into religion. Of course, there is more to it than that, especially when it comes to the individual right part of the amendment. But the notion that the government should not become enmeshed in religion is an important concept, too. There is nothing in the Constitution that specifically says that there is a wall of separation between religion and government. The Wall, however, is a nice shorthand metaphor for non-establishment.

One of the founding fathers, Thomas Jefferson, is directly responsible for giving us this phrase. In his 1802 letter to the Danbury Baptist Association, then-President Jefferson used the phrase - it was probably not the first time, but it is the most memorable one. He said:

Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between man and his god, [the people, in the 1st Amendment,] declared that their legislature should make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof, thus building a wall of separation between church and state.

Jefferson did not have a hand in the authoring of the Constitution, nor of the 1st Amendment, but he was an outspoken proponent of the separation of church and state, going back to his time as a legislator in Virginia. In 1785, Jefferson drafted a bill that was designed to squash an attempt by some to provide taxes for the purpose of furthering religious education. He wrote that such support for religion was counter to a natural right of man:

... no man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever, nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer, on account of his religious opinions or belief; but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities.

Jefferson's act was passed, though not without some difficulty, in Virginia. Eyler Robert Coates wrote that the act was copied in the acts or constitutions of several states, either in words or in concepts. Jefferson himself was in France by the time word of the act reached Europe, and he wrote back to America that his act was well-thought of and admired.

Jefferson's letter specifically pointed out by the Supreme Court in Reynolds v US (98 US 145 [1878]).
#13 Feb 23 2006 at 1:35 PM Rating: Decent
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provide the money. We are in more debt thanks to current government spending trends than we where ever in durring the dark days of the 70's-80's resession. Worse we are on tap to have it so that you and I will never see any of the money we now pay into SS every paycheck. We dont have the money nor will we ever will for 15-20 year at best estimates of payback, more towards 40-60 years. and this is only if people stop going into our country and people stop gving birth.


I completley agree that the current system is completley broken. There should be money for things that matter, and there isnt. While there is money for things that dont.


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but I hope I get pregnant, have health-issues due to it, and die as a result of not being able to save my own life thanks to the wonderful American Government.



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The bill that was passed does in fact have a clause that does allow abortion in the case where a mothers life is in jeopardy. In that case, the pregnancy would be terminated to prevent certain death to the mother.

#14 Feb 23 2006 at 1:42 PM Rating: Decent
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The Wall of Separation

Often when someone speaks of the constitutionally guaranteed right to religion, they also speak of "the wall of separation between church and state," or simply as "the separation of church and state." What does this mean, and what is the origin of this phrase?

It did not take long after the passage and ratification of the 1st Amendment for people to start interpreting it to simply mean that that federal government had no business getting mixed into religion. Of course, there is more to it than that, especially when it comes to the individual right part of the amendment. But the notion that the government should not become enmeshed in religion is an important concept, too. There is nothing in the Constitution that specifically says that there is a wall of separation between religion and government. The Wall, however, is a nice shorthand metaphor for non-establishment.

One of the founding fathers, Thomas Jefferson, is directly responsible for giving us this phrase. In his 1802 letter to the Danbury Baptist Association, then-President Jefferson used the phrase - it was probably not the first time, but it is the most memorable one. He said:

Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between man and his god, [the people, in the 1st Amendment,] declared that their legislature should make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof, thus building a wall of separation between church and state.

Jefferson did not have a hand in the authoring of the Constitution, nor of the 1st Amendment, but he was an outspoken proponent of the separation of church and state, going back to his time as a legislator in Virginia. In 1785, Jefferson drafted a bill that was designed to squash an attempt by some to provide taxes for the purpose of furthering religious education. He wrote that such support for religion was counter to a natural right of man:

... no man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever, nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer, on account of his religious opinions or belief; but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities.

Jefferson's act was passed, though not without some difficulty, in Virginia. Eyler Robert Coates wrote that the act was copied in the acts or constitutions of several states, either in words or in concepts. Jefferson himself was in France by the time word of the act reached Europe, and he wrote back to America that his act was well-thought of and admired.

Jefferson's letter specifically pointed out by the Supreme Court in Reynolds v US (98 US 145 [1878]).



Etain, you and I are looking at this from two different point of views. I don't disagree with abortion from a necessarily Christian point of view. I disagree with it because its wrong to murder, regardless of your religion or sex. Plain and simple, if you kill, you go to jail. You also said that not everyone believes that life starts at conception. As far as I'm concerned, if the baby moves, AT ALL, the baby is alive. During a late term abortion, the baby is very very much alive.
#15 Feb 23 2006 at 1:42 PM Rating: Decent
Arthanian, when you understand the concept of a government telling you what you are and are not allowed to do with your body, then come talk to me. No man, in my opinion, has any weight in this argument because you have no idea what it feels like to have the United States government telling you that you have lost rights to certain organs in your body. No idea.
#17 Feb 23 2006 at 1:44 PM Rating: Good
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Etain wrote:
I really hope that when Falc and I get married, we either decide to leave this country, or I am medically unable to have children because I sure as hell do not want to raise my children in this male-dominated disaster.


For a male dominated disaster we still have more respect than the entire middle east thank god. Atleast women are not forced to wear a burqa, and given the same respect as a pet dog.

**Just wanted to add**

I'm an older brother. I have a younger sister. Nobody should have domain over her but her. Every woman desrves this god given right.

As for abortion, 95% of these pro life guys are religious die hards. In my opinion noting has fu[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]cked this world up worse than religion. Multiple crusades were fought over what? Religion. Many tribesman, native americans, Indians, and island peoples have been slaughtered because of what? Religion, all because they refused to convert faiths. Not long ago some of our British friends will recall a London bombing done by Islamic extremists in the name of... (queue drumroll) RELIGION! The Trade Center and Pentagon... done in the name of Religion. The KKK hides behind the mask of Religion exploiting the cross every day. How about the Spanish Inquisition or Salem Witch Trials? All done in the name of religion.

Religion has been used by man throughout time as nothing more than a tool to bend to his needs for the gullible masses to follow. If religion says abortion is wrong, it means nothing.

Abortion is a womans decision that is hers alone to make. If ********* like Jerry Falwell and Billy Graham don't like it tough.
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For those of you who think modern abortions are inhumane, please compare it to one of ways people did it in the past.

Women would use a coat hanger to force their water to break earlier thus basically suffocating the unborn child. Not only did it kill the fetus, but the woman ran a chance of causing internal bleeding that could be fatal.

Todays methods are much more humane, and driving a spike into the undeveloped brain of a fetus is an instant kill. Think about it, would you rather suffocate or take a bullet to the head? Same thing. The bullet just happens to be much faster at doing it's job and less painfull.

Edited, Thu Feb 23 14:05:53 2006 by ShillelaghNSheild
#18 Feb 23 2006 at 1:45 PM Rating: Decent
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For Etain only,

This is a comment that a female comic made during her routine (the we will never be able to prove it, I do believe it would be true)

"If men were the ones to give birth, Abortion would be a God give Right!!!"

I have no issues for allowing people to use the morning after pill, but again, that's "wrong" according to some people!!

#20 Feb 23 2006 at 1:48 PM Rating: Good
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I can't remember from my R.S lessons but...
The views are divided into Absolutists and I think Relativist.

My personal view, keeping it short and clean, is that if a woman can support the responsibility of the baby, she should do so.

Whilst I agree with what Falcon has written:

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1) if you are to ban abortion, what would you do for those women who know they cant take care of the children they are to give birth to. Adoption is not a answer, as most children never do infact get adopted. Will you provide federal funds to those who cant provide for themselves?

2) Will you pay the medical, finacial bills of those who get gravily ill or die because of a problem that complicated pregnancy and could have been prevented with a abortion.

3) Will you provide for ways to prevent pregnancy. Right now the Republican governement refuses to admint abstinence programs do not work, here in the US nor abroad. Schools who teach alternate meanns of contraspetive lose all government health funding for it. Will you allow the laws to be changed so that you can try to better prevent pregnancy?

4) Will you provide support to women and men who because of their shattered lives live in a enviroment that makes having a child seem like a lot of sense if only to fufill a need they wouldnt have had. Mind you this plays into number 1 since statistically most people who have children they cant support have them because of being given away by their parents unwanted


I also think that there is no right or wrong answer to this. It just depends on how high you value human life- the mother's or the baby's. (Sorry, had to quote whole post)

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Something to actually make one think. Instead of the normal, ZOMG HE STOLE MY NM posts that we usually write about.



True...

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Too many people have too strong of emotions into this subject.


Also true.
#21 Feb 23 2006 at 1:49 PM Rating: Good
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Etain, you and I are looking at this from two different point of views. I don't disagree with abortion from a necessarily Christian point of view. I disagree with it because its wrong to murder, regardless of your religion or sex. Plain and simple, if you kill, you go to jail. You also said that not everyone believes that life starts at conception. As far as I'm concerned, if the baby moves, AT ALL, the baby is alive. During a late term abortion, the baby is very very much alive.


Athanian, just curious, what are your feelings on capital punishment? You said, "if you kill, you go to jail." By that statement, shouldn't the person who flips the switch, or injects the "medication" into a vein for someone on Death Row go to jail? Actually, by that statement, there should be no such thing as "Death Row", since killing a person at all would start this ridiculous cycle.

Also, when a family decides to "pull the plug" on a loved one who is deteriorating or only being kept alive by machines... shouldn't they go to jail too?

If you're going to say "if you kill, you go to jail" its be all encompassing. You can't just say, "well, killing someone/thing under these conditions is bad, but under these conditions is forgiveable and legal."
#22 Feb 23 2006 at 1:51 PM Rating: Good
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Also, please bear in mind that the number of women who don't successfully get an abortion in their own country, do it privately/illegally or abroad.

This highly increases the chance of death to the mother, whether it's through unsanitary conditions or whatnot.

#23 Feb 23 2006 at 2:01 PM Rating: Decent
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very true, many women died in the US from illegal abortions so as not to be found out and be pursecuted by people for having a child out of wedlock.

And also a very goood point hon, why is it a society so bent on murder as a capital punishment, so ok with it, yet its murdering a living breathing person while 90% of abortions are done before the "child" is annything more than a cluster of cells with no ability to do anything but take in nutrients and grow, without even the cells that will actually become the mind.
#24 Feb 23 2006 at 2:09 PM Rating: Decent
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asyra wrote:
Etain, the thing is you're not dealing with just your body. That is a living, breathing creature that is being harmed when abortions are taking place.


Very untrue, it is pretty much confirmed sentience takes place at around the late second to third trimester.. before that there is nothing but a collection of cells not unlike a cancer infact. As for breath, thats not taken in till shortly after leaving the body, oxygen is provided by the blood, the fetus cant actually breath.

I think most of the hatred toward abortion really stems from the general lack of knowlage men have of the actual process of pregnancy and birth. If men actually knew how much missinformation is out there about "when life begins" it wouldnt be nearly the issue it is today.
#25 Feb 23 2006 at 2:10 PM Rating: Decent
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Athanian, just curious, what are your feelings on capital punishment? You said, "if you kill, you go to jail." By that statement, shouldn't the person who flips the switch, or injects the "medication" into a vein for someone on Death Row go to jail? Actually, by that statement, there should be no such thing as "Death Row", since killing a person at all would start this ridiculous cycle.

Also, when a family decides to "pull the plug" on a loved one who is deteriorating or only being kept alive by machines... shouldn't they go to jail too?

If you're going to say "if you kill, you go to jail" its be all encompassing. You can't just say, "well, killing someone/thing under these conditions is bad, but under these conditions is forgiveable and legal."



I'm sorry Etain, but I don't think you can use that as a good example. The reason: A murderer, that raped your sister or brother then killed him to cover up his crime is not the same as an innocent baby that has done no wrong.

We are governed by laws. Laws are needed to keep order. If you break those laws, there will be punishment, plain and simple. Whether "America" as a whole has decided to embrace capital punishment is up to "America" If we as Americans decided to not allow capital punishment, then it wouldn't be around. However, the masses have spoken, so it is legal.

I'm sure you and anyone else would feel very differently if it was your brother or sister raped and murdered. How willing would you be to have that son of a ***** having a free ride through life with a roof over his head and a hot meal daily, while your family/friend is in a grave.
#26 Feb 23 2006 at 2:15 PM Rating: Decent
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I think most of the hatred toward abortion really stems from the general lack of knowlage men have of the actual process of pregnancy and birth. If men actually knew how much missinformation is out there about "when life begins" it wouldnt be nearly the issue it is today.


What would you expect from a group of men that are afraid to talk about sex. The RightWing does not like abortion becuase they are uptight about sex.

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I'm sorry Etain, but I don't think you can use that as a good example. The reason: A murderer, that raped your sister or brother then killed him to cover up his crime is not the same as an innocent baby that has done no wrong.


Oh Etain, about your sister, looks like she will have to keep the baby, oh, we did catch the guy though, and he wants visitation rights.
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